Showing posts with label Time management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Time management. Show all posts

05 November 2011

Here's your sign...

I just finished one of the craziest months in the course of my college education. Stress was constant, sleep was scarce, food was "fast", time was never enough, caffeine was essential, and friends were non-existent. In October, I did the following (in no particular order):
  • 4 quizzes
  • 4 Article Reviews
  • 2 Five + Page research papers
  • 2 other papers
  • 1 Class Presentation
  • 10 exames
  • 7 Study guides
  • 1 Annotated Bibliography
  • 2 physics homework assignments
  • 12 hours of DCFS training
  • and I worked on top of it all.
I kept telling myself, and all who would listen, that if I could just make it to November life would calm down. There wouldn't be as much going on at school, and I could have a life again. So, of course, Tuesday November 1, 2011 a professor of mine offers me a second job, a professor that is on the board of admissions for the masters program I am applying to, a professor that I really respect and want to respect me. So what did I say? Yes!  Really, could I pass up the opportunity to create less time in my schedule?

Things I want to improve:  (1.)   Social Life      (2.)   Gym time      (3.)   Time Management Skills

As I left class Tuesday, I just thought to myself, "God must be trying to teach me something!" Then I thought of the Blue Collar Comedy group and the "here's your sign" routine; that shameful embarrassment is exactly how I felt. I had just maneuvered the most stressful 14 credit month of my life, and when I am expecting to get to work on those items on my list Heavenly Father sends me a message on a silver platter.

What He wants me to improve:      Time Management Skills (so that I can have a social life and gym time).

I am sensing a pattern here. It is all about the priorities. Time is the most precious gift that we have been given in this life. Just last week I ran into E on campus; we started talking about the mission and I noted how little we seem to get done in comparison to a transfer. In the mission, life happens only a day at a time, a week at a time and possibly 6 weeks at a time, but the division of life into manageable time periods makes it all so effective. So I am going back to transfers... month long instead of 6 weeks. November is the first month. I am setting my goals, I am planning my time, and I am making myself accountable to God for what I do.  I think it is all very doable as long as I don't procrastinate, go to bed at a reasonable hour, get out of bed at a reasonable hour, and refrain from "vegging"... ever. 

I have decided that I need to make new friends whose schedules fit better with mine so that I can be social, and I have to fight the urge to stay in when the opportunity to be social presents itself. For example last night there was a surprise birthday party for S and as I was getting ready to leave the house I thought...I should just send C a message and say something came up and I couldn't go. This happens frequently when it comes to me being social, I will be excited about something up until the minute comes to actually commit myself and then I chicken out and back down; I revert to my anti-social ways. But, I am proud to say that last night, I resisted the urge. I went, I had fun, I made friends.

So in honor of a new approach to the same old life: November here I come!